Take time and make time. Does online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual abuse or neglect, so treat each other's time with respect. If it's lacking, might mean to move on.
Communication needs to "feel" right for both parties. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don't rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust. Online dating is about being patient.
Respect each others privacy. Don't share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.
Share special online and offline fun times. Online - send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline - if you're exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).
Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow. You objective is to get a real date out of the cyber world.
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